AP, H1B and getting married

[confusedH1]

I have a complicated situation:
My labor certification has been approved. Yeaaahhh!
I am getting ready to apply for I-140 & I-485.. and request an Advance Parole.. I can travel back home and get married.. once I get married can I use my H1B status to bring my wife with me or once I receive my Parole my H1B status will be taken away??

Point to remember: I CAN NOT travel back home with my H1B status now since it's a single entry permit and for good reasons, I do not want to take the risk of going to Mexico/Canada to get a multiple visa stamp.

What is the best solution for me in this situation so that I can include my future wife's name in my I-485 application.

Any suggestions would be highly appreciated.
thank you

[confusedH1]

I have just gotten an idea.
I need someone, prefarably immihelp, to support this idea if you would please. Here it goes:
I apply I-140... after approval I apply for I-485.. and apply for AP.. after receiving AP I go to mexico and try to get a multiple H1B stamped in my passport.. if they issue one I am fine bcz I can go home and bring my wife with me.. on the other hand.. if they refuse I can always use AP to get in to USA.
I think it's a brilliant idea.. :D
Any thoughts???

[listUser]

Idea sounds good. But are you depending on the premise
that you can marry and add your spouse to 485
application at any stage prior to your 485 approval ?
I am just curious. I really don't know the right
answer.