Fiance Visa - K1/ K2/ K3/ K4

I met my fiancé when he visits here in the phils last year march 2008. he staying 4 days then he back on his place after one month he back again here and stayed for 3 weeks, then we decide to get married here but somebody told that spouse visa it takes longer to process so we cancelled the married stuff and when his back, he applied the fiancé visa and he submit the I-129F after a couple of month he got the notice of action, we thought everything will be okay and were expecting that our petition is not having a problem but we noticed that the USCIS send a letter to my fiancé it says that we need to submit the requirements they need but they are not put the exactly documents, so my fiancé submitted those picture, letter, conversation and other stuff, one thing he forgot to send its a affidavit of support, ITR's and other financial stuff but were expecting that the USCIS tells that we need to follow those documents but when we received again the letter, our case or petition is dismiss due of lack documents.. My fiancé and I so fissed off and sad because of that... we need to start again in first things, were waiting for more than six months for nothing, were crying. Now, we need to apply again. We plan to apply the tourist visa, and I have doubt about it because it seems that I’m not approved by the USCIS.. we don’t know what to do, we have a lot of plan just like re-apply the K1, or getting married over here in apply spouse visa or maybe tourist visa... everybody can help us what will do... thank you for reading my post message. I hope everybody can help us to fix our problem. Please mail me here ........... [email protected]