i am new here. dont have a clue. i have a boy friend oin the ua. in florida. seen hi twice once last june and then this feb/ where do i start. i dont want to marry and he doesnt. do i get visitors visa , i do have a esta which runs out next may. do i apply or an extended visitors visa when that runs out. i ahave so many questiosn i dont know where to start i live in the uk.