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Asking for some advice.
Hi guys,

My interview notice came today after 8 days since my status changed. My interview will be on Nov 19th. I am excited but also a bit nervous because my case might seem rare to most people. I am a bisexual male, back in Sept 2016 I married for the first time to a female whom I was in a relationship with for a year prior to our marriage. We were in love and I can feel that she changed as the time went on after our marriage. We got into a lot of arguments, even though we shared the same bank account, she took my money that I saved to pay for school without asking me first, then we of course had a huge fight but I decided to be a bigger person and let it go so we became lovey dovey again but I told her not to ever do it again and she promised...welp she did it again because she had to pay for her loan that I told her not to take in the beginning...honestly our marriage failed probably bc of our financial issues, i was willing to help but she never listened and kept taking out loans after loans...so we kept arguing and I finally decided to never put my school money in our account anymore. We always had tension after that but still stayed together, there were a lot of her leading me on by making promises that she never kept. she promised to change and work out our issues but then when the interview day came, she wouldn’t wanna go because she felt so sick that morning so I asked to reschedule but then when I got home, she decided to go to work later that day like wtf?? We of course argued and I told her that I was done putting up with her manipulative behavior, I wanted a divorce and I left...so our divorce was final 3 months later (aug 2018) ...ofc i told the attorney to withdraw the case from uscis like as soon as I filed for a divorce. Fast forward to 6-7 months later, I married to a male and we are as happy as ever, I for once in a long time finally feel happy and loved. He never holds this whole “green card” thing over my head, we have solid plans for our future and our financial status is very stable. Never take tuition money from me, we share our money, what is mine is his and vice versa. Even though our parents dont approve, we don’t let that get in between our love and marriage. So we filed around December 2018 and Our interview is coming up. we are confident in our marriage and we have all the proofs and nothing to hide. However, I am just worried about what the interviewer might think since I was married to a woman before. Love is love and I am just who I am. I wonder if anyone here is going through the same situation? Or at least similar? If so please give me some advice, thanks!
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