Visitor Visa - B2

Hi i am 35 male from punjab india .i had refused twice back in 2012 alone and in 2015 with my wife . In 2012 my passport was blank and in 2015 i traveled to England ,hongkong,macau,thailand, and my wife passport was blank after 2015 refusael i been to Germany and france .i have three kids .i am.doing my business and i have annual income around 14 lac and my wife annualy income around 5 lac and we have solid land purchased and good savings around 40 lac .now i want to apply alone for usa and canada .first tell me do i have to apply for canada first coz my cousin send me invotation from canada and he ill acompany me to usa . Thanks in advance i already post my experince 40 days back bt no one commented on that .this is how my last interview went our interview was in punjabi bt VO speaking Hindu
V.o hi passport plz
My wife. Slided passports
VO.why r u gng to usa in hindi
Me.for tourisum
VO.which place u want to visit
Me. NYC,NIAGRA,WASHINTON
Vo.what u do
Me business
Vo.to wife .what u do
Wife.i work with my husband and take care of my family
Vo.why u went to UK
Me.for tourisum
Vo. Do u have anyone there
Me. Yes i have my friend bt we are gng thru tour package
Vo.then your friend nt gonna hangaround with u .
Me.i kept my self quite didnt said anything then he said sorry go back to home lolz

       I know i messed up in the last bt then i went to germany framce after two months and i got my europe visa in a 30 hour time.thanks in advance