Adjustment of Status - I-485

So I am creating this thread for all of us going through a difficult time with our spouses and pending AOS.

I was inspired to open this because of a post from Thadid i read yesterday.

I was actually shocked because i thought i was the only one going through abuse, mine is not physical yet, but mental and emotional.

I have been made to feel less than a human being, i have lost my voice, i do not have an opinion, i am denied affection and treated like a plague, On several occassions i did not even give a damn about getting my status adjusted and just wanted to leave and go back home, but when i do so he begs and cries then i take him back.

What is so painful about everything is that, this is someone that is supposed to be my Husband, my protector but you treat me this way.

I have asked and begged God to change him, i have tried to love him unconditionally despite his wickedness, but it keeps getting worse. Cheats on me with no care, yet would wait for me to beg him for sex.

When i think of how bubbly i was compared to how i am, i just take this phase as a training from God, i think God is trying to teach me something. They say there is a reason for everything, I know one day in the future i would know the reason i had to go through this.

So let us come together, let us share our experiences, let us talk, cos i know talking to people in similar situations can be therapeutic.

I was going to say we create a whatsapp group but for privacy reasons, we can just communicate here until we are comfortable with any member to want to take the conversations out of here.

Let us share the word of God, pry for each other and just keep in touch.

Who knows we might even end up becoming a group to reckon with, cos i want to believe that after reading the stories from yesterday, we are not the only ones going through this, many other people are.

Let us just become our brothers keeper, and lean on ourselves.

MY PD IS 12/20/16
I am a Chicago filer.

Cheers.