Adjustment of Status - I-485

Hi,
Since i am Not a Facebooker so what i do in the mornings is to check this forum, the interview stress us so much.. i have read the experiences here and i have some questions please.,

Is it important to have our adress on the our driver liscences ?? My spouse has everything under his family adress and we don’t want to change it specially that we are planning to move out from ny to another state so we didn’t see why we should change all twice, someone said that the IO focused on this point !
You think they will consider it a negative point ??
Also i am new in the us so i don’t have friends , i was tourist so my friends or people i met were tourists and all went back, and my spouse’s family are all homophobic, so we didn’t do a ceremony neither honeymoon..
We are planning to do it in the pride of Amsterdam, so after all of this will they consider these a negative points affecting the bona fida of our marriage.. someone said they don’t care about your stories, they are officers, they need to see approves and papers.. Also Coned they don’t have the ability to put the bill under two names, so i found it stupid if they put the first name (my first last name together) and the last name is (his first name last name together) this how they do it.. plus when i put the bill under my name they didn’t ask me for anything, i changed it online.. so i said it’s not even a strong approval that the DHS will consider it whie i was surprised when someone said the officer asked about this ??
I am super stressed..