Hello everyone, it took me so much to write this out here, pray for me, pray for me please, when one or two people who does not know me call on my name to the lord, he will have mercy and answer. I have prayed and fasted and I believe in God. I'm the applicant and my husband filed for me.
PD was August 2017, we were living in Baltimore, got my EAD and we moved to Texas April 2018, where we me and married. We were living with my husband ’s cousin and was still trying to secure a job and get an apt, we got interview noticed and had to go back to Baltimore for it July 2018. The interview went fine, then the IO realized that we moved and didn't say much, but noted our new address. we were given white paper and said they let us know if they need anything else, interview must be received.
We got back to Texas and changed the address to our new address here when we got a lease, August 2018. Few days later, my status changed to ’interview cancelled, we’ll mail you a noticed’ it felt like my work shattered because I thought we done. I was at work when I noticed it, called husband and he consoled me, and asked me to follow up and update it. Interview was rescheduled the same day for October and I told husband, we started to prepare for it. Everything was going find with us until we had issue, my husband refused to show up for interview and I could not believe he did that to me.
I called and rescheduled, my husband and I made up and started lovey-dovey again. We moved to Dallas from Midland and got called for third called for third interview at Elpaso, which we drove to from Dallas. We didn't know we were walking into a stoke interview, which lasted for 2:30hrs each person. The IO even doubted our marriage which hurt me, because we have moved a lot.My husband messed up in some questions, he forgot what I got a degree on and forgot the last time we were intimate. She said decision can't be made because we now live in Dallas. She will have our answer mailed to Dallas or they might call us for another in Dallas. Our marriage will be two years next month. I have a better job and earns more, the IO picked on that and said I even have a Master's degree he doesn't. I came here as an international student.
My husband was a very sweet guy when I meet him, but he seem to have taken advantage of my status now by threatening me that he won't show up if they call us for interview anytime we fight. We quarrel and makeup all the time.
I don't know my faith now, I feel he does not love me. I asked him if I have done anything wrong and he said I'm stubborn and don't listen to him.