Adjustment of Status - I-485

I need help i am canadian married to an american soldier. We got married on a tourist visa so ni fiance visa was usesd. This took place in the states. The lawyer that we hired never told me that i cannot cross back and forth during the i485 since i live in canada and my husband was just accross the border. We got married in november and since last week have been going back and forth no problem. Not knowing that i have abandoned my application. Before i was going to move to the states i called the lawyer and asked if my paper work is good enough proof to show that i can live there. He said yes you shouldnt have any problems. When i tell them i am moving there they said my lawyer screwed me and i cant enter with intent to immgrate. I am now stuck in canada and im wondering if i can go through consular processing here? Would it be a problem that we got married in the usa? I am so nervous