Adjustment of Status - I-485

Filled AOS, EAD, I-130 in 02 October 2015
application received in 08 October 2015
EAD received in 08 oct 2016
Bio-metrics letter mailed in October 15 2015
Did bio-metric on 22 November 2015 and in evening while arriving home we bumped into a new mail ,request for initial evidence RFI on same date!!!.

Replied on November 22 2015 and USCIS received it on December 1 2015,online status changed to USCIS received evidence on 02 December 2015, l-130 received to local office on 1 December 2015.

Until today 02/22/2016 which is 82nd days since usics received initial evidence(Taxes w2 we submitted), and 106 days since USCIS received EAD and whole package of documents we submitted.
online status remained "USCIS RECEIVED INITIAL EVIDENCE" until when we made decision to call USCIS, that is last week on 02/17/2016 .The officer gave me a T1B number and send us a mail, as that was going on l received a letter from pontac requesting for Biography filled paper 325G #again, which am positive included in the first package ,due to time and stress we hurriedly responded last week,But Tonight am surprised to see another online status requesting for another initial evidence(NOT RECEIVED THE MAIL YET)....OK will this new request mark another begin of 90 days? if yes is it possible l change the whole process to consular? because l still have a job where l came from, we have a family ranch at-least l will be busy doing something helpful and gainful . at-least l will be able to send her flowers,chocolate during next valentines instead of being a house warmer..lazy and fat...as African man its a taboo to be fed by wife,clothed by wife,receiving pocket money...sometime it looks like sugarmummy something l really hate,,,And l feel really ,ashamed...#FEEL_LIKE_QUITTING...