Help !!

[Almeg89]

There is no need to say that iam hiding something , my husband is abusing me and controling me since the interview is over , i figured out that he went to the interview and changed all the facts in front of the interviewer and withdrawn the application and didn’t give me a chance to complete the interview to have chance for apeal !
Now he is controlling me and abusing me emotionaly and treating me invery bad way , he want me to pay him for the child support ( he has child support for a child from previous marriage which he did’t tell me about before marriage , i just knew about it after we got married and filed the package since then he was forcing me to pay the child support every 2 weeks , or he will call the police to have them deport me !)
I already was obayibg him idon’t know why , any ways he did so in the interview to control me more and threat me , iam now asking for help what should i do ?
Iam very scared of him , he was treating me badly infront people and that makes me feel down iam broke up deep inside cannot talk cannot eat or drink or sleep , he is destroying me now !
Please help !

[Peacelilly]

There is no need to say that iam hiding something , my husband is abusing me and controling me since the interview is over , i figured out that he went to the interview and changed all the facts in front of the interviewer and withdrawn the application and didn’t give me a chance to complete the interview to have chance for apeal !
Now he is controlling me and abusing me emotionaly and treating me invery bad way , he want me to pay him for the child support ( he has child support for a child from previous marriage which he did’t tell me about before marriage , i just knew about it after we got married and filed the package since then he was forcing me to pay the child support every 2 weeks , or he will call the police to have them deport me !)
I already was obayibg him idon’t know why , any ways he did so in the interview to control me more and threat me , iam now asking for help what should i do ?
Iam very scared of him , he was treating me badly infront people and that makes me feel down iam broke up deep inside cannot talk cannot eat or drink or sleep , he is destroying me now !
Please help !

Get out! call the police to help get you out if you are to scared. He has already damage your reputation with USCIS, you need a good lawyer.

[anthoknee]

It is very tragic to read this. I am certainly not qualified to give you legal advice regarding this matter, but what I would suggest to you personally is if you have any friends or family that you can stay with for a while, that is where you should be. If your husband is abusing you, do not be near him. Stay somewhere safe, a place where you can get the rest that you need and to plan for your next steps.

I am not sure what your immigration path forward is, and, sadly, I am not sure that you have much of a path forward.

[aquila]

There is no need to say that iam hiding something , my husband is abusing me and controling me since the interview is over , i figured out that he went to the interview and changed all the facts in front of the interviewer and withdrawn the application and didn’t give me a chance to complete the interview to have chance for apeal !
Now he is controlling me and abusing me emotionaly and treating me invery bad way , he want me to pay him for the child support ( he has child support for a child from previous marriage which he did’t tell me about before marriage , i just knew about it after we got married and filed the package since then he was forcing me to pay the child support every 2 weeks , or he will call the police to have them deport me !)
I already was obayibg him idon’t know why , any ways he did so in the interview to control me more and threat me , iam now asking for help what should i do ?
Iam very scared of him , he was treating me badly infront people and that makes me feel down iam broke up deep inside cannot talk cannot eat or drink or sleep , he is destroying me now !
Please help !

For how long have you been married to this person?

I, too, was in an abusive marriage and had no choice but to leave it. My ex actually called ICE on me, but by then I had left her. It's quite unfortunate to be in one, especially one in which you're virtually helpless and leaving could be negatively consequential.
An option you have is, if he physically abuses you, you may file as an abused spouse of a USC. Weigh your options and if possible, get out. No one should be in an abusive relationship for any reason.

[omoiyakaso]

Call the cops

sorry about this....

According to Peacelily, you have the right to call the cops on him, so far you don't have any criminal record in the US, you can not be deported.

Call the cop and tell them you been threaten to death.

[mustang85635]

sorry about this....

According to Peacelily, you have the right to call the cops on him, so far you don't have any criminal record in the US, you can not be deported.

Call the cop and tell them you been threaten to death.

You can't be deported ? Thats untrue, everyone thats illegally in the country can be deported. There are priorities when it comes to deportations like of people with criminal records but it can always happen. And she will receive notice to leave the country when her case is rejected.

You can call the cops on anyone but making threats to someone like " I will call ICE on you" is not a criminal offense. Verbally abusing someone is also not one .
Physically abusing someone is a crime and should be reported! But from what she said here it is not clear that that happened so take it easy.

Having said that, you should not stay in an abusive relationship.