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    Our aos-marriage based interview is scheduled the first week of October in Newark.
    We already prepared our binders with the ff;

    1. Joint tax transcript for 2017, sponsor's tax transcript
    2. Original and copy of birth certificates
    3. Original and copy of marriage license, marriage certificate and my spouse's divorce decrees (been married twice)
    4. Our child's birth certificate
    5. Original and copy of our lease with both our names
    6. Joint bank statements (only recent because our bank needed an ssn to add me)
    7. Original and copy of Pseg bills for the last 6 months and originals from what we submitted with our application.
    8. Copy of our Phone bills with both our numbers and names
    9. Advance directives that has been notarized.
    10. Copy of life insurance that has my name as the beneficiary
    11. Orginal and copy of greeting cards and invitations with both our name and address
    12. 2 written affidavit from our relatives of how they know us and our relationship
    13. Correspondence, mailing receipts of gifts we sent to each other, chat correspondence.
    14. Travel tickets and hotel accommodations (with both our names)
    15. Photos of the wedding and photos of vacations, photos with our family.
    On a separate folder all our forms, noa, past additional income tax for the sponsor and spouse.

    What worries me.
    1.Since this is the third marriage im afraid that we will be scrutinized but my spouse only petitioned the spouse on the first marriage which was more than 15 years ago.
    2. Is age gap an issue because we have a 15 year age gap?
    3. Reviewing my I-485 yes or no question "have you ever been denied a visa" i said nk but now i recall, my first try for a tourist visa my passport was given back to me and although that time i did'nt take it as a denial i tried again after a year and was approved. We asked the lawyer about this and made me more nervous he said it may cause the denial if I said something that would incriminate me, that it is up to us if we don't want to declare the mistake or correct it during the interview (some advice really?!) My gut is telling me to correct it,just come clean and write and explanation.
    4. My spouse lost job early this year and I am still trying to get an employment since August but to no avail. We do have a sponsor that makes enough but we're nervous about it.

    Any additional advice will be greatly appreciated

  • #2
    You might find this thread useful https://www.immihelp.com/forum/showt...580#post581580

    It's hard to say if your visa was denied or not. It seems like they just handed your passport back so that you would not actually have a denial on record. The Immigration Services Officer has a lot of ground to cover during the interview. I would not walk in there and making that the center of your interview. Let the officer get to the Yes/No questions. If it comes up, it's because you do have a denial on record. He/She will address. If you do not have a denial on record -and to me, it sounds like you don't, then the Immigration Services Officer will not choose that Yes/No question to discuss with you.

    If it comes up, just explain exactly what you posted here. They returned the passport back to you. That's it. From what I understand, you would have received a rejection letter. I may be wrong. I never apply for a tourist visa.

    Definitely look through the thread. It can help you organize the evidence. I recommend to everyone getting a notarized advance health care directive, a financial power of attorney, and an affidavit of residence to account for your place of residence if you do not have a least or mortgage.

    *Just noticed you have an advance directive listed. Awesome! You're definitely on the right track.

    All the best,

    USCFFS
    Last edited by UScitizenFilingforspouse; 09-20-2018, 11:36 PM.

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    • #3
      I meant to address the age gap. We have an age difference of 16 years, 10 months, 12 days. I do not think of it often. Don't worry about it. Make sure you showcase the things that you do together. For example: playing tennis is our thing. We have a lot of evidence around that.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Archer12 View Post
        1.Since this is the third marriage im afraid that we will be scrutinized but my spouse only petitioned the spouse on the first marriage which was more than 15 years ago.
        Ours is also my USC hubby's 3rd marriage, and his 2nd alien petition. His 1st petition was for an I-129F, in 2014, for his then-2nd wife, which was approved, but something happened during their 2015 AOS process which resulted in denial. We disclosed this info on our I-130. I assume you/your hubby answered 'Yes' to this I-130 question, 'Have you EVER filed a petition...?' During our interview, while the IO was going thru Form I-130 with my hubby and came to this portion, the IO asked my hubby for details about the previous petition, the result, and the reason for denial. While my hubby gave the details, the IO was taking notes and typing/checking something on the computer (probably verifying my hubby's statements). So just be prepared for this question and be truthful, even if the previous petition was 15 years ago.


        Originally posted by Archer12 View Post
        2. Is age gap an issue because we have a 15 year age gap?
        There are couples now who have a 25-year age gap. Bridge that gap by redirecting your IO's focus to your solid evidences which should scream: BONA FIDE.


        Originally posted by Archer12 View Post
        3. Reviewing my I-485 yes or no question "have you ever been denied a visa" i said nk but now i recall, my first try for a tourist visa my passport was given back to me and although that time i did'nt take it as a denial i tried again after a year and was approved. We asked the lawyer about this and made me more nervous he said it may cause the denial if I said something that would incriminate me, that it is up to us if we don't want to declare the mistake or correct it during the interview (some advice really?!) My gut is telling me to correct it,just come clean and write and explanation.
        My 1st US tourist visa application was in 2003; denied. Second try, after my circumstances changed, was in 2009; approved. I answered 'Yes' and gave additional info on the last page of the I-485 form. During my 1st application, I remember the Visa Officer slipped a small piece of paper in my passport, then handed me back my passport, he didn't say anything. Without looking at that piece of paper, I surmised it was a denial, because I was told by friends prior to the interview that if the Embassy doesn't return my passport, it means I'm approved. Which was what happened on my 2nd application. Now, during my AOS interview last Aug 2018, the IO went thru the Yes/No portion, asked that question, I answered 'Yes'. IO asked, when? I said, 2003. She wrote something on the form, then moved on to next question. My advice is, be honest. You will have a chance to correct it during the interview because the IO will go thru the Yes/No portion. When IO arrives to that question, rectify the mistake. If IO skips the question, volunteer to correct your answer. Remember that you signed and certified, under penalty of perjury, that all of the information in your I-485 is complete, true, and correct.


        Originally posted by Archer12 View Post
        4. My spouse lost job early this year and I am still trying to get an employment since August but to no avail. We do have a sponsor that makes enough but we're nervous about it.
        As long as your joint sponsor meets the federal poverty guidelines, no need to worry. Just bring copies of your joint sponsor's financial and tax documents. I read somewhere that I-864 issues are normally dealt with at the NBC and not in Field Offices during interview. The IO who interviewed us only asked if we have a joint sponsor, we said yes, then the IO just flipped the pages of our I-864 folder to look for the joint sponsor's documents. IO didn't scrutinize the documents.

        Good luck and all the best to you and your spouse!
        Marriage; Concurrent
        11.22.2017: PD
        12.04.2017: 4 NOAs in mail
        12.28.2017: Bio Appmt
        04.23.2018: RFE in Mail
        06.29.2018: RFE Response Sent
        07.02.2018: RFE Response Rcvd
        07.21.2018: I-693 Courtesy Ltr
        07.26.2018: "Interview scheduled"
        08.02.2018: Interview Notice in mail
        08.31.2018: INTERVIEW/Approval
        09.04.2018: SS Card in mail
        09.05.2018: "We mailed your EAD"
        09.06.2018: "We mailed your GC"
        09.08.2018: EAD/AP Combo card & I-130/I-485 Approvals in mail
        09.10.2018: GC in hand

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        • #5
          Originally posted by 4EVER View Post
          Ours is also my USC hubby's 3rd marriage, and his 2nd alien petition. His 1st petition was for an I-129F, in 2014, for his then-2nd wife, which was approved, but something happened during their 2015 AOS process which resulted in denial. We disclosed this info on our I-130. I assume you/your hubby answered 'Yes' to this I-130 question, 'Have you EVER filed a petition...?' During our interview, while the IO was going thru Form I-130 with my hubby and came to this portion, the IO asked my hubby for details about the previous petition, the result, and the reason for denial. While my hubby gave the details, the IO was taking notes and typing/checking something on the computer (probably verifying my hubby's statements). So just be prepared for this question and be truthful, even if the previous petition was 15 years ago.




          There are couples now who have a 25-year age gap. Bridge that gap by redirecting your IO's focus to your solid evidences which should scream: BONA FIDE.




          My 1st US tourist visa application was in 2003; denied. Second try, after my circumstances changed, was in 2009; approved. I answered 'Yes' and gave additional info on the last page of the I-485 form. During my 1st application, I remember the Visa Officer slipped a small piece of paper in my passport, then handed me back my passport, he didn't say anything. Without looking at that piece of paper, I surmised it was a denial, because I was told by friends prior to the interview that if the Embassy doesn't return my passport, it means I'm approved. Which was what happened on my 2nd application. Now, during my AOS interview last Aug 2018, the IO went thru the Yes/No portion, asked that question, I answered 'Yes'. IO asked, when? I said, 2003. She wrote something on the form, then moved on to next question. My advice is, be honest. You will have a chance to correct it during the interview because the IO will go thru the Yes/No portion. When IO arrives to that question, rectify the mistake. If IO skips the question, volunteer to correct your answer. Remember that you signed and certified, under penalty of perjury, that all of the information in your I-485 is complete, true, and correct.




          As long as your joint sponsor meets the federal poverty guidelines, no need to worry. Just bring copies of your joint sponsor's financial and tax documents. I read somewhere that I-864 issues are normally dealt with at the NBC and not in Field Offices during interview. The IO who interviewed us only asked if we have a joint sponsor, we said yes, then the IO just flipped the pages of our I-864 folder to look for the joint sponsor's documents. IO didn't scrutinize the documents.

          Good luck and all the best to you and your spouse!
          Thank you so much 4ever. I will surely do that when the IO goes thru the yes and no questions and prepare the written explanation.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by UScitizenFilingforspouse View Post
            You might find this thread useful https://www.immihelp.com/forum/showt...580#post581580

            It's hard to say if your visa was denied or not. It seems like they just handed your passport back so that you would not actually have a denial on record. The Immigration Services Officer has a lot of ground to cover during the interview. I would not walk in there and making that the center of your interview. Let the officer get to the Yes/No questions. If it comes up, it's because you do have a denial on record. He/She will address. If you do not have a denial on record -and to me, it sounds like you don't, then the Immigration Services Officer will not choose that Yes/No question to discuss with you.

            If it comes up, just explain exactly what you posted here. They returned the passport back to you. That's it. From what I understand, you would have received a rejection letter. I may be wrong. I never apply for a tourist visa.

            Definitely look through the thread. It can help you organize the evidence. I recommend to everyone getting a notarized advance health care directive, a financial power of attorney, and an affidavit of residence to account for your place of residence if you do not have a least or mortgage.

            *Just noticed you have an advance directive listed. Awesome! You're definitely on the right track.

            All the best,

            USCFFS
            Thank you so much USCFFS. I read the thread you recommended and it's really helpful. We accomplished the advance directive just recently from what I also read from this forum (I think it was you who suggested it too) and we had it notarized. I appreciate your advice and what you do in this forum.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Archer12 View Post
              Thank you so much USCFFS. I read the thread you recommended and it's really helpful. We accomplished the advance directive just recently from what I also read from this forum (I think it was you who suggested it too) and we had it notarized. I appreciate your advice and what you do in this forum.
              Hi, i know its not my thread, but just curious - why is adance direcrive so important? I clicked on the link, where it explains, what it is- is it teally a living will? Meaning , making your husband/wife make decissions regarding your health , should something happen to you? Thats just too extreme for me personally...

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Dreamerdancer42 View Post
                Hi, i know its not my thread, but just curious - why is adance direcrive so important? I clicked on the link, where it explains, what it is- is it teally a living will? Meaning , making your husband/wife make decissions regarding your health , should something happen to you? Thats just too extreme for me personally...
                It may sound quite extreme but in reality if something did ever happen to me, my spouse will have to make decisions for my health and vice versa. Putting this into writing and legal form ascertains that concept and that i have full trust and confidence to my spouse and him to me. That's how I see it.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Archer12 View Post
                  Thank you so much USCFFS. I read the thread you recommended and it's really helpful. We accomplished the advance directive just recently from what I also read from this forum (I think it was you who suggested it too) and we had it notarized. I appreciate your advice and what you do in this forum.
                  My response was late-night vague. I want to clarify that whether it comes up or not, it should be addressed. Later down the road, when you apply for naturalization, not correcting your answer might become an issue and could be labeled as misrepresentation. You do not want that.

                  Like I said, you did not get a rejection letter. I've read that everyone does. I am unsure if that is the rule. I came here on F-1 and it was approved. I never had B1/B2. So just explain it. Or you could also bring the explanation in writing.

                  All the best,

                  USCFFS

                  PS: How's that table of contents coming along?

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by UScitizenFilingforspouse View Post
                    My response was late-night vague. I want to clarify that whether it comes up or not, it should be addressed. Later down the road, when you apply for naturalization, not correcting your answer might become an issue and could be labeled as misrepresentation. You do not want that.

                    Like I said, you did not get a rejection letter. I've read that everyone does. I am unsure if that is the rule. I came here on F-1 and it was approved. I never had B1/B2. So just explain it. Or you could also bring the explanation in writing.

                    All the best,

                    USCFFS

                    PS: How's that table of contents coming along?
                    Hi USCFFS , tried to message you privately, but it says your mailbox is full how do i go about the affidavit from relatives , pls?

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Dreamerdancer42 View Post
                      Hi USCFFS , tried to message you privately, but it says your mailbox is full how do i go about the affidavit from relatives , pls?
                      Just emptied it. Thank you for letting me know!
                      I wouldn't focus on affidavits. If you must use that type of evidence, then get them notarized.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by UScitizenFilingforspouse View Post
                        My response was late-night vague. I want to clarify that whether it comes up or not, it should be addressed. Later down the road, when you apply for naturalization, not correcting your answer might become an issue and could be labeled as misrepresentation. You do not want that.

                        Like I said, you did not get a rejection letter. I've read that everyone does. I am unsure if that is the rule. I came here on F-1 and it was approved. I never had B1/B2. So just explain it. Or you could also bring the explanation in writing.

                        All the best,

                        USCFFS

                        PS: How's that table of contents coming along?
                        Thanks we will clarify that on the interview. I remember my passport was just handed back to me I did'nt get any paper because if i did i would have had it on file or had saved it in my scanned files( I'm a bit of a file freak) but nonetheless it's better to be clear and truthful than to think of what ifs.

                        I followed 4ever's filing method and the folder technique with the table of contents on the left side and contents on the right.

                        I'll update you once i have it all nice and organized.
                        Last edited by Archer12; 09-22-2018, 09:55 PM.

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