AOS from J1 trainee visa, worried, am I overreacting?

[sdchargers]

Hi everyone,

I am a US citizen (actually American and French dual-citizenship), my wife is French, she was a J1 trainee until we filed her AOS package. We have been married for 4 months and filed AOS around a month ago.
We have been dating for almost three years and lived together for more than one year.

We both met in college in France, got the same college degree in France, came here to the US to study for a year, she then got her J1 trainee visa and this is when we decided to get married.

My wife is not that worried about the whole process, but I on the other hand am pretty worried. I am just afraid that for some reason we won't get approved, or that we get a RFE. And I really don't want us to be separated.

I know I shouldn't have to worry since our wedding is bonafide, we have all the evidence etc ... But for some reason, I am still very worried.

Do all of you feel the same way? Am I overreacting?
Do people get denied even though they have a real marriage and all the documents?

We don't have a lawyer for now since people told me it was not absolutely necessary.

Thanks for your help!

[daru786]

Hi everyone,

I am a US citizen (actually American and French dual-citizenship), my wife is French, she was a J1 trainee until we filed her AOS package. We have been married for 4 months and filed AOS around a month ago.
We have been dating for almost three years and lived together for more than one year.

We both met in college in France, got the same college degree in France, came here to the US to study for a year, she then got her J1 trainee visa and this is when we decided to get married.

My wife is not that worried about the whole process, but I on the other hand am pretty worried. I am just afraid that for some reason we won't get approved, or that we get a RFE. And I really don't want us to be separated.

I know I shouldn't have to worry since our wedding is bonafide, we have all the evidence etc ... But for some reason, I am still very worried.

Do all of you feel the same way? Am I overreacting?
Do people get denied even though they have a real marriage and all the documents?

We don't have a lawyer for now since people told me it was not absolutely necessary.

Thanks for your help!

You remind me of my brother!!!!! Remember one thing and one thing only, "NO FEAR"........................