First of all we read a post about some white gal who was upset about how other Indian females treat her or look at her. Then we read why Indian males feel they know Indians marry white females. Let us tell you a story......
I am married to an Indian male and have been with him for 5 years now. Not once did any of his friends make me feel like I was less of a person, nor did any Indian females treat me like "What the hell is she doing with that guy!" A respectful Indian person wouldn't carry themselfs in such a manor. Also the reason behind my marriage had nothing to do with him feeling he could control me more than an Indian gal. He said he always knew he would marry an Amercian gal, because Indian most gals are too uptight, boring, don't drink, don't social smoke, don't like to be wild and party. Some are pretty cool, but still not up to his speed. This coming from his mouth towards any Indian male who thinks or does this......If your stupid enough to think all American gals are easy......then your stupid for sleeping with her, because it means shes been with many other men and your just as bad as she is and shouldn't go around bragging as if its cool, beacuse how do you think you sound saying thats why you go looking for American females. The male half of this couple wasn't impressed by the guy who thought that was a good strong point he made, trying to make Indian males living in the US making good Indian guys look pathetic. American gals are not easy per say, its just the type of girls you are looking for are, and therefore makes you yourself trashy and unclassy. Please do not rank all white and or Indian females in the same class, as both come in many different thinkings, lifestyles, etc. No two people can be the same. Basicly easy gals are not one whole race, they are just a type of gal whom turns you on, LOL! Which is up to you if you like such gals or not.
Neither one of us control the other. Actually coming into the realtionship I had more than my husband did. I drive a much better more exspensive car than him, but thats just materal stuff, and should never be judge when entering a realtionship. If a man feels he must have more or be better than his wife, then he shouldn't marry. My husband didn't care that I had more or less than him, nor did I judge him based on any such stuff.
Life is how you make it, and theres no room for racist people in our lives. We are who we are, we love who we love and nothing can change that. If the biggest issue in your life is "Indian females don't except our engagement" then your not ready for marriage with any Indian male. Don't place your happiness in someone elses hands, we never have and never will.
~A very happy married couple!~