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So, I really have a hard time dealing with the American embassy in Europe. I am an international student, and my mom is a single parent. She applied for the tourist visa a year ago, and circumctenses were not great! her salary was not high enough, and she did not have money on the bank statement. But, this time, she went with higher salary (her company was bought by the other guy), and she had a proof that she just bought an apartment two weeks ago (plus she had her old apartment that she also had last time). She also had 4000$ on her account. I sent her the letter from my college, and she said that it is my birthday on September and that she wanted to be with me and so on. They denied the visa again! So, I have some concerns. Is it possible that since my mom is REALLY nice looking, although she is 47 year old, and single that they assume she would marry somebody in the US? The other thing that I am worried about is that I came to the US as a tourist and then changed my status to an international. Do they keep rejecting her because of my change of status?I do not think they even looked my name up in the computer, but who knows. ( If so, then she will never be approved visa, right???). I mean, I have a lot of friends who came on J1 and changed their statuses and their parents have had no issue coming to visit them, but again I came as a tourist. I do not understand. This is pure discrimination, and the irony is that she really wanted to come for one month. Thanks in advance for your suggestions!
So, I really have a hard time dealing with the American embassy in Europe. I am an international student, and my mom is a single parent. She applied for the tourist visa a year ago, and circumctenses were not great! her salary was not high enough, and she did not have money on the bank statement. But, this time, she went with higher salary (her company was bought by the other guy), and she had a proof that she just bought an apartment two weeks ago (plus she had her old apartment that she also had last time). She also had 4000$ on her account. I sent her the letter from my college, and she said that it is my birthday on September and that she wanted to be with me and so on. They denied the visa again! So, I have some concerns. Is it possible that since my mom is REALLY nice looking, although she is 47 year old, and single that they assume she would marry somebody in the US? The other thing that I am worried about is that I came to the US as a tourist and then changed my status to an international. Do they keep rejecting her because of my change of status?I do not think they even looked my name up in the computer, but who knows. ( If so, then she will never be approved visa, right???). I mean, I have a lot of friends who came on J1 and changed their statuses and their parents have had no issue coming to visit them, but again I came as a tourist. I do not understand. This is pure discrimination, and the irony is that she really wanted to come for one month. Thanks in advance for your suggestions!
. Another friend of mine CHANGED her status, and her mom did not have an issue. My mom is one of the most beautiful woman in my city, a former model, and they are dicriminating her, assuming that she will stay. Oh, no. Please stop being paranoid. do not judge easily when people from the embassy ALWAYS make these kind of mistakes. They deny people who really want to come for a visit, and approve those with dishonest attentions . Btw, the last questions for my mom was: "Where did you travel lately?"...She did not travel at all....So, dear immigrants, please do not be so full of yourself. And yeah, how about people who come here, their visa expire, and then they get married, and bceome green card holders and their parents are also able to visit them? I was not illegal in this country at any point!
. And about my friend's mom...She did not mention her daughter, but wait a second. Do you actually know that anytime you apply for visitor visa, you have to fill out the information about your parents? How come they did not recognize that her mom's name was already listed on someone's application (her daughter's application). And you did not answer my question, why is it that some people who change their status can have their parents here to visit, while my mom was rejected twice? Do you know why? Because she is single! And because she did not have a nice officer. If that is the law, as you say, that people who change their status are not able to bring any relative here, than it should be the same for everybody, right???? And how come your officers are wrong all the time 
? I know at least 20 people from all around the world who come as tourists and then get married, etc??? That is my point. There should be more clear rules. The officers are just human beings ( with wrong judgement most of time).
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